I had never made the comparison before this morning. It only
came to me after spending a couple of hours trying to wrap my head around his suicide.
Now I see it clearly that Anthony Bourdain was the Hemingway of the TV
generation. I don’t even know how or why this thought occurred to me. Perhaps
it’s due to the fact that they were both famous and famous travelers. They both seemed to have it all when they gave it all up.
There are
a few parallels I didn’t consider, like the fact that they both took their
lives just before reaching their 62nd birthday (Hemingway: July 21
1899 – July 2, 1961 * Bourdain: June 25, 1956 – June 8, 2018). I don’t know, but I would imagine that they were both
tortured by depression, a condition that I couldn’t imagine.
I’m sure that countless people have thought to themselves, “I
wish I had his job.” That honestly never passed my mind, because I could have
never done it as well as Anthony Bourdain did his job on TV for so many years.
I’ve been a huge fan of travel writing since back before I
had ever traveled anywhere. Two of my favorites, Paul Theroux and Bill Bryson,
are colossal whiners and I wouldn’t care to share a train carriage, canoe,
tandem bicycle, rickshaw, or a car with either one of them, not even for the shortest of treks.
Anthony Bourdain was probably the life of the party wherever he happened to be
that day. I wish that I could have hung out with him to have a beer and some
cheap food, like our coolest president was able to do in the above photo.
So not only will I never get that chance, I'm also denied the pleasure of following him around to places I've never even dreamed of visiting. Adiós, Anthony Bourdain.
When the comments are better than my essay:
Tony
Bourdain outlived Hemingway by at least a day, and probably more. But
it was a close thing. It's easier to figure because both got 15, not 16
leap days. Hemingway because 1900 wasn't a leap year, and Tony because
he wasn't yet born in Feb. 1956. So count back 19 days from the birthday
for Hem. He was born about 8 AM and died early in the morning, so he
got an almost even number of days. Tony was born about 8:30 AM in NYC,
so you count back 19 days and get that time on June 6, or 1:30 PM in
France. But Tony made it at least to the next day after 1:30, because
they finished shooting work that day. Then he went back to his hotel and
was never seen alive again, being found the next AM about 9:30. So Tony
gets the extra day and then some. A small victory. "Life breaks
everybody, and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those
it cannot break, it kills."